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Chinese Food and Ordering
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Survive and thrive at any Chinese table: ordering, chopstick rules, tea etiquette and paying the bill.
Ordering like a local
Get attention: 服务员! (fúwùyuán! — waiter!). Order with 我要… (wǒ yào… — I want…): 我要一碗米饭 (one bowl of rice, please). Ask for the menu: 菜单, 谢谢. "Is it spicy?" — 辣吗? (là ma?) — matters in Sichuan. Vegetarian: 我是素食者 (wǒ shì sùshízhě). Pointing at a neighbour's dish plus 这个 (zhège — this one) never fails.
At the table
Dishes land in the CENTRE for sharing — order one dish per person plus one extra. Rice (米饭) is individual; noodles (面条) are long life — never cut birthday noodles. Hosts serve you the best pieces; protesting lightly (够了够了 — enough!) is polite ritual. Tea: tap two fingers on the table to thank the pourer silently.
Chopstick rules
Three taboos: never stick chopsticks UPRIGHT in rice (funeral incense — deeply ominous); never point with them; never spear food. Rest them on the bowl edge or the stand. Struggling is fine — asking for a fork (叉子) is unremarkable in cities. But practise: competence with 筷子 (kuàizi) earns genuine respect.
Paying and praising
The bill: 买单 (mǎidān). Expect a theatrical fight to pay — hosts nearly always win; guests contribute by inviting next time. Tipping is NOT customary on the Mainland (refuse politely if change is returned). Praise: 很好吃! (hěn hǎochī — very delicious!). Full: 我吃饱了 (I have eaten to fullness).
| Phrase | Meaning |
|---|---|
| 我要… | I want… — the ordering phrase |
| 这个 | this one — the pointer's friend |
| 辣吗? | is it spicy? |
| 很好吃! | very delicious! |
| 我吃饱了 | I am full (eaten to fullness) |
| 买单 | the bill, please |